Marriage Coaching for
Couples and New Parents
When we feel seen, understood, and valued by another person it makes the rest of the world more manageable. This bond happens between partners when we can turn toward each other and feel completely safe and know that we are not alone. Relationships start out with this hope.
But for many couples disagreement and conflict over time diminishes this feeling of connection, the sense of oneness. When there is discord in our relationships it can leave us feeling alone and excruciatingly vulnerable. And the more couples try and fail to reconnect the more isolating our relationships become.
It can feel hopeless to repair a connection when so much hurt has been exchanged. Seeking outside support in that process has helped many couples restore the trust in their relationships. As a marriage coach and a trained Marriage and Family Therapist I want to offer hope, clear direction and inspiration to bring safety and affection back into your life together.
Marriage Coaching for Couples and New Parents
When we feel seen, understood, and valued by another person it makes the rest of the world more manageable. This bond happens between partners when we can turn toward each other and feel completely safe and know that we are not alone. Relationships start out with this hope.
But for many couples disagreement and conflict over time diminishes this feeling of connection, the sense of oneness. When there is discord in our relationships it can leave us feeling alone and excruciatingly vulnerable. And the more couples try and fail to reconnect the more isolating our relationships become.
It can feel hopeless to repair a connection when so much hurt has been exchanged. Seeking outside support in that process has helped many couples restore the trust in their relationships. As a marriage coach and a trained Marriage and Family Therapist I want to offer hope, clear direction and inspiration to bring safety and affection back into your life together.
Meet Dr. Nicole Parker
I am the owner and sole provider in this practice so you will work with me directly. Strengthening marriages is my passion and my life’s mission. I want to know what are your biggest struggles in your relationship right now, and figure out the fastest and most effective way to change them forever.
I understand not being able to see past today when today feels so terrible, I totally get that. But I am also thinking about your future selves in 10, 20, 30 years from now. What changes do we have to make right now, that will set you up for that bright and happy future that I want for both of you?
Meet
Dr. Nicole Parker
I am the owner and sole provider in this practice so you will work with me directly. Strengthening marriages is my passion and my life’s mission. I want to know what are your biggest struggles in your relationship right now, and figure out the fastest and most effective way to change them forever.
I understand not being able to see past today when today feels so terrible, I totally get that. But I am also thinking about your future selves in 10, 20, 30 years from now. What changes do we have to make right now, that will set you up for that bright and happy future that I want for both of you?
Ways I Can Help...
Gottman Method Relationship Coaching
The Gottman Method, developed by Drs. John and Julie Gottman, focuses on enhancing relationship stability and satisfaction through research-based interventions. This approach helps couples build a strong foundation of friendship, manage conflict constructively, and create shared meaning. By employing specific tools and techniques, I guide partners in improving communication, fostering intimacy, and addressing underlying concerns.
New Baby, Happy Marriage
The 'New Baby, Happy Marriage' program is designed to help couples strengthen their relationship and co-parenting skills during the transition to parenthood. It focuses on improving communication, enhancing intimacy, and balancing family dynamics, guiding couples through phases of effective co-parenting, reconnection as a couple, and adjusting family boundaries. By fostering teamwork, mutual support, and prioritizing family needs, the program aims to create a harmonious and enduring couple relationship.
Atone, Attune, Attach for Affair Recovery
Atone, Attune, Attach for Affair Recovery, developed by the Gottman Institute, is a structured and research-based method aimed at helping couples heal after infidelity. This approach involves three phases: atoning for the betrayal, attuning to each other's emotional needs, and attaching by rebuilding trust and intimacy. By guiding couples through these steps, I help couples to restore the relationship's foundation and foster long-term resilience and connection.
Ways We Can Meet...
In-Office Appointments
I welcome couples to my beautiful office in downtown Rochester, Michigan, conveniently located on University Drive just west of Main Street. Many couples find that meeting in person enhances their bonding experience, whether they choose to attend all or just some sessions face-to-face. This inviting space offers a warm and supportive environment to work on strengthening your relationship.
Video Conferencing
I also meet with couples via Zoom for convenient video conferencing, allowing both partners to join from different devices. This flexibility means you can attend sessions even if you are in separate locations. Whether you're at home or traveling, I aspire to accommodate your busy lives and keep your relationship thriving.
Here's What to do Next
STEP 1
Click the Book a Consultation
button below to fill out an application.
STEP 2
Set up a free 45-minute video consultation call with Dr. Parker. Both partners need to be present for this consultation.
STEP 3
Attend the consultation call so I can help you identify the three things you can do immediately to start working together as a couple and stop feeling alone.
Here's What to do Next
STEP 1
Click the Book a Consultation
button below to fill out an application.
STEP 2
Set up a free 45-minute video consultation call with Dr. Parker. Both partners need to be present for this consultation.
STEP 3
Attend the consultation call so I can help you identify the three things you can do immediately to start working together as a couple and stop feeling alone.
Frequently Asked Questions
Answers to common inquiries below
How does this work?
This program is structured as a regular weekly video sessions with me, over a 90-day period.
What's covered?
There is so much I can cover with couples that this is a difficult question to answer. Generally speaking, we will focus on the relationship skills that are most important to foster early in the life of a couple building a family together; this includes managing differences of opinions in parenting, family organization, setting limits and holding boundaries, being assertive, offering and receiving emotional support, big picture planning, growing a family identity, working through conflicts with each other, maintaining affection and romance, standing up to pushy family members, and many more...
Who is this for and not for?
This is for couples who are in a committed monogamous relationship who have grown their family beyond yourselves, so you may have a newborn or you may have a three year old and still be struggling to work together. If you have to balance the identities of spouses AND coparents, this program will speak to your struggles.
What if I'm not sure?
Totally fine! That’s why we start with a free video consultation. Schedule the call, follow the steps, and together we will determine if this program is a good fit for your needs.
How often do we meet?
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What can I expect after the therapy?
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